Pot Luck Feast

We can have dinner anywhere. I've eaten in the world's best restaurants and enjoyed life changing food, the essential aspect being tasty, soulful, and well executed. What are you bringing tonight that deserves my attention?

1. If you don't make an honest effort, who would want you around?
   
2. If you don't rate highly, why would you expect to stay?
   
3. What do you do that is exceptional and matters to me more than trivia?
   
4. If you fail to make an impression, how does that differ from absence?
   
5. If your absence is inconsequential, how would your presence matter?

When you are not the special snowflake you imagine, you are easily replaced, or ignored.